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Got a call on the way to Huntington and it was the eye surgeon, not the retina guy but the guy for cataracts.
I'd gotten a call from his assistant earlier in the week to set a date for the first surgery and get the ball rolling. There was a available date in a couple of weeks but it was right before the SML champs. Next available date was October 15, so I took that one, no reason not to do it on my 70th birthday.
And then she told me what sort of lens the guy was planning on putting in, one to correct for nearsightedness and let me have distance vision with no glasses. What maybe most guys want.
And at that point I got a little bothered, because we hadn't really talked about it. And since this sort is surgery is a substantial commitment -- as opposed to getting glasses, where if they aren't right you just get another pair -- I wanted to be sure I was happy with what was planned.
So I asked if I could get an appointment with him to discuss options, and she said he was very busy at the office so that was going to be hard, but on the other hand he was very happy to call me and talk either some weekday evening or on the weekend.
That was better than nothing, so I said OK though not really happy. And then spent some time in the last couple of days educating myself about the options in lenses, and also try to figure out what my wishes were in terms of where I wanted the focal lengths set.
So anyway, he called and we ended up chatting for about 15 minutes, I asked a bunch of questions which he answered. I also tried to spell out for him what mattered to me, which I thought might be different from his normal clients, such as (1) I've always worn glasses and I don't expect to be liberated from them, (2) I've always been nearsighted and could read well without any glasses, and I want to still be able to do that in the future, not have to chase around for a pair of reading glasses all the time, and (3) I'm happy to pay for premium lenses if they will help. Also explained my need to be out in the forest and able to read a map.
We went through the various options and decided on a plan -- keep the nearsightedness, get a better lens for the right eye to correct for the bad astigmatism there, and plan on still wearing glasses. My vision should get somewhat better, though there is no avoiding the bad retinas (which also limit the options in premium lenses, such as multi-focal ones).
And he said an interesting thing at the end, that he was so glad we had the conversation because he now understood what my hopes and expectations were. And of course I was happy too.
I think my expectations are pretty low, and I'm trying to keep them that way. But any improvement at all will be very welcome.