I got a note from Michael Eglinski today bearing something sad and shocking: a link to Brian Graham's obituary. I had no idea Brian had been ill, much less that he had died.
It's not as if we were close and stayed in touch, and yet all the same I always liked Brian a lot. He was just fun to be around and to talk to. We were at a lot of the same races and training camps and such through 1993, but only very rarely after that.
The last time I saw Brian was at the N. Ams hosted by DVOA 4 years ago. I hadn't seen him for years at that point; we bumped into each other during the Sprint Relay and had a great conversation, talking for quite a while and catching up. It stuns me to think he's gone, and I wish I had known he had been ill--I would have been in touch. Very sad stuff.
For those who never met Brian, he was a great guy. For those who did know him, he will be missed.
"Life is a series of farewells; sometimes you know it at the time, a lot of times you don't."
Once I found out the news, I changed my plans for the rest of the day, and ran up to the top of Medicine Bow Peak, alone with my thoughts, quietly recalling Brian and times gone by.