I was sitting at my desk the other day and the phone rang. I picked it up and entered a time machine. It was a first cousin, David Harvey, calling from Athens, Ga. (a place I had spent the summer of '69 at Navy supply corps school and where I'd chased a Georgia coed or two). I don't really know first cousin David. Mother's side of the family was from Michigan & Wisconsin. We did not travel there much when I was young. David was calling me to tell me that Aunt Lois had died in April at 93. Lois was my mother's sister-in-law. Jack & Lois lived in Rockford, Illinois when I began grad school at Northwestern. Occasionally, I'd leave that big, windy concrete jungle for a gentler place even if 'only' Rockford. Anything feeling of country felt better. Lois was a music teacher. I was pursuing classical guitar at the Old Town School of Folk Music in Chicago. She'd play scores for me on the piano. David was calling to see if I could come up with any memories or stories for Lois' memorial service this 17 July. I went looking & found a photo of the two of us from February, '68. Somewhere, I know I have a music score with a note she wrote on it. I told David I don't have the greatest of memories for such facts. I have a "Diary of Seasons' Passing" begun August 17, 1974 with a last entry of November 6, 1984. I went looking there as it began at that time but, alas, noting said. It was fun perusing these old notes - seeing through the looking glass around age 28. I could not find any particular mention of visits to Rockford which was a bit disappointing. I found plenty of glimpses into myself from that period. I was occasionally pleased, more likely amused. There was much Northwestern medical early experience, names written, faces forgotten. But the diary entry, September 27, 1974, (at Chequamegon National Forest, north-central Wisconsin) was, in part, about nature. I'll add that part to this log/diary. The entire entry is pages long, alone in nature with thoughts and pen, what would one expect.
"From Neillsville (where mother grew up), I headed north for the Apostle island district but, in passing through the town of Cadott, suffered a $40 setback (speeding ticket) which changed my plans. I spent from a Thursday at 3 to a Saturday at 11 in the Chequamegon National Forest, just Duke (my lab) and me. Autumn was in a state of fiery rage: reds, yellows, golds, and reddish orange and delayed green. I set my tent up and perched myself against a log where I remained in comfort reading some of Emerson and "Papillion." It was a joy to look upward to the blue through those multicolored leaves. I was reminded of Thoreau's statement to the effect that it was enough of an occupation to merely observe the passage of the season. Even in the brief time I was there, I was aware of the sun and moon's paths across the sky and their distances above the horizon. I had a continual desire - but for some reason continually aborted - to try some poetry to capture the experience."
The next paragraph starts with commentary about an "acute and chronic" awareness of passage of time....
I will look for the music score for a memory aid of Lois. At some point in the near future, I'll sit down with a glass of wine, appropriate frame of mind and
try to write a few paragraphs to celebrate close people, paths crossing in the past and the best of recollections that serve to resurrect close people in a brief moment of pause known as a memorial service.
Town Pond 'gentility'